A man defends his honor by fighting and beating an opponent. A woman defends her honor by fighting unwanted suitors and reserving her virginity for a mate of her own choosing. One of the biggest insults a man can use against another man is to say that his mother is sexually promiscuous.

Someone who has never had penetrative sex is called a virgin. Female virginity is valued by men due to the territorial nature of male sexuality. Men do not like to be compared to other male lovers. Men prefer an inexperienced lover so they can focus on their own arousal. A sexually inexperienced woman is more likely to accept anything a man offers without question because she has no expectations of other men.

Young women are often not assertive. They may give in to men’s persistent attempts to have sex with them only to find that they are disrespected afterwards. Married women know that their husbands always want more sex than they are willing to give. They also know that men are attracted to women all day long, regardless of any relationship. So women don’t always feel that their efforts to please and satisfy their partner’s sexual needs are respected.

Some women enjoy casual sex and are happy to have superficial sexual contacts just for fun and ego. They like to chat or have a romantic dinner. Sex is a small price to pay. They have sex when they choose. They can go weeks without sex and no one notices. A wife does not have this luxury. Women who have relationships with men have sex much more frequently and regularly than women who have casual sex. This is one of the injustices that women face. Promiscuous women are considered more sexual than loyal women.

Logically, since men themselves are tempted by promiscuity, one might expect men to look favorably on promiscuous women. But the opposite is true, men don’t like women who are too easy sexually. They suspect that she is having sex with them for the benefits (like going on paid dates).

Many men pay for the maintenance of other men’s progeny without even knowing it. Other than using a DNA test, a man cannot tell if a child is his or not. If a woman is less sexually compliant, she is more likely to be loyal to a man. The problem with this approach is that it also means that a woman is less compliant with all men, including her husband.

A man wants a woman to be excited about sex but only about him. A man marries a sexually unadventurous woman because he appreciates the benefit of her love for him. In the long run, women have sex with a man they love. But this love has nothing to do with reaching orgasm.

Women have two main reasons for having sex. Some women who have sex solely for personal gain without any emotional attachment. They have sex for money or for personal ego. The second motivation is, of course, the romantic love that leads to marriage. Women do not have sex to enjoy sexual liberation and pleasure; otherwise, they would pay to have sex like men do. Women rarely have sex with more than one man at a time. Women cheat when their current relationship is emotionally unsatisfactory or when they hope to improve their lifestyle with a more successful man.

The most prominent sexual behavior of women is their desire to please men. Some women suggest that they use men for sex. Women use men to earn money or for some other advantage, such as career advancement or marriage. They are also arousing, such as bragging about orgasm to satisfy your own or a lover’s ego. Female promiscuity has nothing to do with a woman’s responsiveness. A woman cannot use a man’s body to enjoy sexual arousal and liberation the way a man can use a woman’s body.

Not all men (especially if they are married) appreciate the approach of an attractive woman. Women are not usually sociable with men they don’t know. So a man suspects that his motives are sexual. He may feel pressured by his own assumption that sexual performance is expected of him.

Sex is first and foremost a male biological need that, at least for some men, can be satisfied by any woman. A woman can be described as a wicked temptress simply because she is attractive to men. We talk about women of pleasure or sinful women. It’s not that women are inherently evil (or enjoy sexual pleasure), but their bodies tempt men into illicit sex, leading to social problems like unwanted pregnancies and broken marriages.

If women viewed sex the way men do, they would be pregnant all the time. For reproductive reasons, a woman can consciously choose who she will mate with. Women have no reason to want to have sex and many reasons not to want it. Only when a woman is attracted to a man and feels an emotional connection does she naturally feel willing to have sex. This desire is more emotional and romantic than erotic.

Many men…are prone to seek intercourse from all available girls, while insisting that the girl they marry must be a virgin when they first have intercourse with her. It is the man, more than the woman, who imposes this inconsistency in the social code. (Alfredo Kinsey 1953)