Have you ever been caught in a situation where you just didn’t know whether to stay or go? Has there ever been a time when an old flame just can’t seem to let you go? Were there times when you considered friendship over romance after a relationship failed? Well, there goes the case of the ex. Women almost always fall into this situation when an ex-boyfriend wants to be her friend, and the big question haunts them: WHY? Why would an ex want us to be friends? What does this mean? There’s an old cheesy saying that when your ex lover wants to be friends with you after a breakup, it’s because he’s still in love with you or was never in love with you to begin with. While this further complicates the situation and could leave you more confused, there are a number of well-received reasons in society – admitted by men too – why your ex-lover would want to keep the ties: not with love this time, but with friendship.

He’s not ready to let go.

But he’s also not ready to go back to the relationship they just ended. He is still in love with you, but he needs a break. But he’s not entirely sure if a permanent break would be what he really wants. He wants to keep communications open, see you from time to time, and keep you in his life because he just isn’t ready to let you go. When an ex boyfriend wants to be friends with you because he is not ready to let you go, you have to be careful. Because you two obviously had reasons to end the relationship. Being friends (which, in post-breakup vocabulary, just means the same relationship without the benefit of physical intimacy) can be dangerous territory. Remember that as friends, there is no commitment. And then he can catch up with you from time to time, be the same sweet boy that he is, and make you fall in love with him even more deeply, only to leave you in the end because friendship wasn’t working out for him either. . It could be the other way around, of course. It can nurture the bond you share and lead back to a reconciliation.

Keeps you up for casual encounters.

Men can be cruel, we all know that, especially when what they want is sex and only sex. If your relationship ended without a third party, it may take a while for your ex to find a suitable rebound girl. While some men are comfortable paying for sexual services, others aren’t, and these select men would rather resort to having sex with an ex for many reasons: familiarity, trust, an established bond, pleasure. When an ex boyfriend wants to be friends, you can be positive and think that maybe he is sincere with her approach. But also keep an eye open. He might want us to be friends so he can still sleep with you. In that case, your ex is not looking for a simple friend in you. She wants a friend with benefits.

He really sees you as a friend now.

Related to the cheesy statement mentioned above, your ex boyfriend may not have had a crush on you from the start. And since he was never in love with you, it will be easy for him to maintain that level of connection. He feels comfortable having you in his life without the complication of a messy relationship and the demands of commitment and dating. Since maybe he enjoys your company, or really sees you as a friend who would love to be a part of his life, then your ex boyfriend would really propose friendship after your relationship dies. In any case, you should really consider your ex’s personality, use whatever knowledge you have about his background and personality, and listen to your gut: when an ex boyfriend wants to be friends, it could mean a lot of things. Don’t be blind to the signs. Keep your heart open, but your eyes more even.