Part of the appeal of giving oral sex to women is in the sheer passion, intensity and excitement of cunnilingus, along with the great intimacy it brings to the sexual relationship you have with your woman. There is also a feeling of comfort and an immediate release of stress, which can be of great benefit to some guys.

Begin massaging the mons pubis and the entire vulva with the palm of your hand so that he gets used to feeling it there. After a relaxed 5-10 minutes of this, get into position between her legs, perhaps lying down with your hands in front of you or running your hands around her legs to reach the top of her vulva.

Start by kissing the mound of Venus for a while with small butterfly kisses, then slowly transition down to kiss the entire outside of the vulva, then the inner lips. Then use a light, fairly flat tongue to make short, small licks across the entire area to moisten it.

Then use a pointed tongue and side-to-side motion to open the inner lips and expose the inner vestibule. Now position your upper lip so that it makes contact with the fleshy area just above the clitoral hood (this is called the front corner). Press firmly and tilt your head about 45 degrees from the level of your vulva, so that your nose is pressed against the mons pubis. Open your mouth wide and use a wide, flat tongue to lick very slowly from the bottom of the vestibule to the top where the clitoris is. Lick it ice cream cone style when you do this at first, making sure it takes about 10 seconds to reach the top. This long, slow lick will probably be the first to elicit a moan or movement of some kind, if you were careful to arouse her before starting with the right amount of dirty talk and male domination, both of which are absolutely necessary for a successful outcome.

Your next mission is then to very slowly build up speed and experiment with a variety of tongue shapes, pressures and directions of movement to find the one you like. This will be different each time you do it, so you’ll need to find it again each time. Finding this may take some time and maybe even multiple sessions, so be patient.

Once you have found it, repeat this movement. This is your “rhythm”. Absolutely stick to it at all costs – KEEP DOING IT AND DON’T CHANGE IT. Then she will ride him to orgasm!

Watching her hips move and her body undulate more and more as she gets aroused and rides herself to orgasm is a huge turn on for us guys. The feeling of being so close to the most feminine part of her is so arousing, and the slick wetness of her vulva and the softness of her labia minora against your lips is incredibly intimate. This will give you a feeling of “Oh woman! I love you!” and what this does is create a sexual energy and passion that you can feel in your chest. Bring this passion to hers on her lips by imagining it actually going up her breast and into her mouth and over her lips and tongue, then express it in the oral pleasure you are giving her woman without changing the swing. This adds intensity to what you are doing and she will feel it. This will allow her to give herself over to what you’re doing and bring her much closer to orgasm.

Then, when the first wave of passion subsides, continue to keep up the pace as the next wave builds up inside of you. Then once again bring him to your lips and let the electricity fly through his lips and give him another intense lick, gradually sucking his lips into your mouth with your lips and letting the experience wash over you. Keep doing this with each wave, which will rise within you faster and faster, until you forget to count the waves and let the whole world fade away until all your mind can think about is your lips and their moisture, and their body. wavy. She will dig her heels into your lower back, which creates a wonderful comforting feeling and tremendous stress release for you.

Finally, when you reach the brink of orgasm, stop, look at her and smile, then go back into the same rhythm, going crazy, licking everything in sight, in every direction. His hands will grab the back of your head and pull you inside and you will feel the vaginal contractions as he releases in a thunderous orgasm and everyone is swept away.

So don’t think that cunnilingus is all about her and that there is nothing for you. Be confident and show her passion, and it will give you and her an experience you will never forget!