Parents today shower their children with materialistic gifts. They get the latest toys, designer clothes, and even tickets to see their favorite cartoon characters. Some kids even have their own iPads (I don’t even have one!).

But if you could only give your child ONE gift that would last a lifetime, what would it be? What is that ONE gift that will stay with her child when they are both gone? What would it be then?

As loving parents, they have done a lot of good, along with “mistakes” they never intended to make. Your little ones see you, their parents, as their everything. Their whole world revolves around you, their parents. How many of you have made such heartbreaking statements, in a moment of stress, like “How can you be so clumsy!?” or “Why can’t you be as smart as your sister!?” It may be something innocent that we don’t really want to say, but it means a lot to the child.

Before you go deeper into harming your child, STOP! Never say negative things to your child. It may seem harmless or it could be some sort of joke, but a child’s filtering system isn’t that strong yet and they may take that comment literally.

Take this analogy. When we buy a computer, it comes complete with an instruction manual with all the do’s and don’ts. However, babies come as they are. Many new parents are not lucky enough to have extended family members to lend a helping hand. Many practically walk into parenthood with no idea what to expect! So how can these parents give their best to precious little bundles of joy?

Sleep Talk™ for Children is a very powerful positive parenting process. It was developed by Joane Goulding of the Goulding Institute in Melbourne, Australia. It works by imputing positive messages to a child’s subconscious mind that will give them confidence to face the world. The process helps with many childhood issues such as separation anxiety, bedwetting, habits, behavioral issues, speech, just to name a few. This procedure can also be used for children without any problem. It only takes two minutes every night to give your sleeping child positive suggestions.

Think about it, what children say, or the way they act, are learned behaviors. Who do they learn from? His So when you hear people say, never argue in front of your children, it’s true! Children’s minds are like sponges, they absorb everything!

Spending time with your children is important. Take them to the parks, go fishing with them, help them bake cookies, or even go to art class together. Remember that what you invest in your children today will have a lasting effect on them forever. Spending quality time with them and letting them know how you feel is just as important.

With The Goulding Process – Sleep Talk™ for Children, we will be able to provide our children with the happiness and confidence to face daily challenges when we are not there to “protect” them.