Before a man has gotten to the point of having a relationship with a woman, there is a good chance that they are already having sex. If this is not the case, it could show that he is religious.

On the contrary, it could be a sign that you are more traditional and want to take your time. On the other hand, it could be someone who doesn’t feel very comfortable asserting themselves, causing them to deny this part of themselves.

Two parts

Or, if the man is not religious or traditional, he may be with someone who is religious or traditional. It will likely work better if you are both religious or traditional, as this will mean you both come from the same place.

When a man is having sex at this point, he may find that he can still enjoy this area of ​​his life when he enters into a relationship with the woman. In addition, with the passage of time, they will understand each other better.

a stronger bond

Because of what has transpired between them, they will feel more at peace in each other’s company. Then there will be a good level of trust and respect between them, allowing both of them to let go completely in each other’s presence.

Both of you will know what turns the other on, making it easier for you to have satisfying sexual experiences. This area of ​​your life could be seen as a vital part of your relationship, being something that strengthens the bond you have and brings you even closer.

Free days

However, this does not mean that the man, or even the woman, will always be in the mood to make love. The pressure of work and other commitments could weigh on his mind, taking away their sexual desire.

But, after a while, they should soon find that their sexual desire returns, allowing them to get back in touch with their body and experience pleasure once again. If something like this happens, they might find that their partner supports them, just as they do when their partner is not in the mood.

Integration

The man will then be in contact with his body and his heart; then he is going to be operating as a complete human being. In other words, every part of him will appear.

Being in a relationship with a woman will not make him lose himself or become too strong. However, while there will be men who can show up during the early stages of meeting someone and once it develops into a relationship, there will be other men who can.

A different story

A man may then meet a woman and end up having sex with her over time, but as soon as things get serious, he may end up losing interest in sex. He can go from someone who has a high sex drive and finds it easy to get an erection, to someone who has no sex drive and can’t get an erection.

It will be as if you love a certain food at one point, only to be completely put off by it at another time. As strange as he may find this, he may also have a hard time understanding why it has been closed.

two problems

Then there may be the anxiety and even the embarrassment that he experiences, and there may be what the woman goes through. The man might start to fear that he will end up being rejected or seen as weak.

The woman, on the other hand, could come to believe that the man is no longer attracted to her, making her feel rejected and even worthless. However, if the man has not disclosed what has happened and the woman has not realized what is happening, she may resort to using alcohol or other substances to get in the mood.

What’s going on?

Now, one way to look at this would be to say that you are simply under a lot of stress at this point in your life and it will pass soon. Then it will be essential for him to find a way to de-stress, so that he can enjoy sex again.

Another way of looking at this would be to say that the reason he has shut down is due to the effect that getting close to a woman has had on him. Approaching a woman may have brought to the surface what has not been resolved since her early years.

Way back
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This may have been a time in their life when their mother got too close to them, causing them to feel suffocated and overwhelmed. Not only would this have made them feel violated, but it would also have made them feel bad on a deeper level.

Their mother would not have seen them as a separate human being; instead, she would have seen him as an extension of herself. So it wasn’t up to her to meet her son’s needs, it was up to her son to meet her needs.

reconnecting

The man will then have closed himself off from having to feel all the feelings he experienced when his mother got too close to him. On the positive side, this will allow him to experience a sense of relief, but on the negative side, this will make him disconnect from himself and of course will have a negative effect on his current relationship.

If you were to get back in touch with your body and no longer feel closed off, you could end up experiencing embarrassment and even nausea. This could be followed by feeling trapped and suffocated.

Awareness

The years will have passed since man was a helpless and dependent child, but the emotional experience he had as a child will have remained within him. Ultimately, approaching a woman will cause him to re-experience how she felt when she approached her mother.

His inner mother will need to be removed from his inner world so that he can embrace the present moment and see more of his partner, or any other woman, as his mother. This is a process that can be carried out with the help of a therapist or healer.