The Internet has revolutionized the way we think and behave today. In addition to keeping us connected with people who are polar opposites, it provides us with a great source of information. To be honest, neither my children nor I can imagine our lives without the Internet, but I was very worried about how to save them from the dark side that it has. The theft, pornography, and fake news that are commonly prevalent on the Internet can be much more dangerous to your children than you think.

Some parents think that involving children in outdoor games and prohibiting them from using the Internet is a solution. But is not! You can’t stop your kids from using the internet as it is everywhere. If they don’t use it at home, they will use it at school or at a friend’s house. The only thing you can do is make them aware of the negative aspects and increase their maturity in the following ways.

1. Put your computer in the living room

When your children are under 15 years old, avoid placing the computer in their rooms or any private place. Do not allow them laptops and set up a regular computer for them in the living room or any shade structure in your home. You may also have to sacrifice a bit for them, as they are drawn to devices when they see adults using them. In their presence, try to keep your laptops and tablets inside and use only the regular computer.

2. See what they are looking at

You don’t have to do this once they’re grown, but you should do some research when they’re under 18. I try to browse through my kids’ histories and social media accounts to see what they’re up to. I once found them browsing an inappropriate website, so I advised them how it could harm them.

3. Teach them not to post their personal information

Personal information is the most powerful tool for thieves and sexual predators for blackmail and negative use. I have always taught my children not to use their personal information including phone number, email address, photo, passwords and even real names on social media websites. Also, consider them only talking to people they know.

4. Block unnecessary material

Your children may gain access to some websites unintentionally. For example, they may come across some harmful porn websites while searching for your biology queries. You should be vigilant and block such websites to keep them protected. They don’t know what they’re looking at and it’s better that they don’t until they grow up.

5. Be kind and empathic

The only way to protect your children from the negative aspects of the Internet is to be kind to them. Don’t be too strict or bossy that they’re afraid to tell you about things they’re experiencing. For example, be open enough with them that they can open up to you if they are being cyberbullied. That is the only way you can protect your children!