If you and your ex had strong feelings for each other at some point, there’s a good chance they still have feelings for you now. On the surface it may appear that they have moved. However, what your ex says doesn’t usually reveal the whole truth about how she feels. Does your ex still have feelings for you? There are several signs that your ex is clearly still interested (and may even be open to getting back together).

Does your ex still contact you?

This doesn’t have to be a direct phone call either. It could be a quick text or an email with a mundane question. If they are constantly looking for ways to keep in touch, this is a sign that your ex is still interested.

Does your ex flirt with you?

If you see your ex from time to time and they flirt or act playful, this could be a sign of interest. Try to flirt and watch his reaction. If he flirts with other people in front of you, this could be his way of trying to make you jealous…another clue that he still has feelings for you.

Are you constantly “bumping” with your ex?

Does it seem like your ex is always in the same places as you at the same time? These “chance” encounters may seem like a coincidence, but they are probably doing it on purpose as a way to keep in touch.

Is your ex on his best behavior?

Maybe they dress better, exercise, or talk about how well they are doing in life. They may be trying to impress you and hoping that you will take an interest in them again.

Does your ex still have feelings for you? The final result:

Remember, what your ex says is usually not an indicator of how he really feels. The best thing you can do is not pressure them into revealing how they feel. If you ask them directly, chances are they won’t tell the truth. Because? Out of pride, fear of rejection, not wanting to shake your hand, etc.

Now that you know what signs to look for, you can read your ex’s true feelings much more easily…and you can decide if they’re someone you’d like to get back together with.