Sex is important! Through the act we perpetuate the species, our own genetic material, and of course, we have fun. Sex is one of the fundamental drives of the human mind; ask any publicist or filmmaker if sex sells or not. Sex is what I like to call a sensual energy exchange. There are different uses for this energy just as there are different inclinations and preferences regarding this energy. Using the Destiny Number, also called the Path of Life, we can learn how to better channel this energy to satisfy our sexual needs. The destination number is your date of birth reduced to a single digit. For example, if it were on January 1, 1980, you would proceed: 1 + 1 + 1 + 9 + 8 + 0 = 20 and 2 + 0 = 2.

NOTE: Sexual expression is often considered taboo and even those who are ’emancipated’ can suffer a series of repressions. To better illustrate this point, we will focus on the extremes. Don’t be surprised if you find yourself experiencing a reaction one way or another and keep an open mind, use these tips to sexually embody your vibration..

1 Destination: It can be solved in the search for your lover. Taken to the extreme, you can see love as a contest and your partners as conquests. Sometimes you focus too much on your own satisfaction and are a little too dominant, although your partners find you exciting and willing to experiment. Sexual activities: You can channel your 1 energy while at the top. Be sure to experience the other end of Spectrum 1 by allowing your partner to ride. Ladies, try the red lingerie for an exciting night out.

2 Destination: You are a caring lover who aims to please in any way you can. You enjoy kissing, hugging and hugging. In fact, these things are necessary as you need to feel protected and nurtured. In the extreme, you can try to plan things ahead and schedule love. You can be a bit submissive and follow your partner’s energy very well. Sexual activities: Show your partner your willingness to please by showing your body through dance and self-pleasure for your eyes only. On the other hand, playfully refuse the advances of your lovers from time to time and learn to enjoy the power that comes with teasing. Women should consider shades of orange in underwear and makeup.

3 Destination: You are an exciting, playful and confident lover. This gives you the ability to make your partner comfortable with your playful and lighthearted attitude towards sex. You like the different positions and you probably have a copy of the Kama Sutra on your shelf. You can be so uninhibited that you can make your lover blush! Sexual activities: Activities that allow sensual exploration of other parts of the body are ideal such as sex of the breasts and sex of the feet or toes. Ladies can spice things up with shades of yellow.

4 Destination: Fours can struggle with emotions, especially understanding their partner’s passions. You are slow and steady and can delay sex to gain energy. Relationships are very important and you are extremely loyal and faithful. Your sex life can stagnate if you take an intellectual approach and rely only on tried and true methods to turn you on. Sexual activities: Turn off the lights and get under the covers with your lover. Slow, smooth and long. On the other side of the coin, go crazy every now and then. Try to make love outdoors. Ladies, green is the color to bring out your sensual side to the fullest.

5 Destination: The adventurer! You enjoy the variety and the excitement. Spontaneity is exciting as are new places, new positions, and new people! You are attractive to the opposite sex and need mental and physical stimulation. You like the ups and downs of passion and stimulation. Sexual activities: You may want to eat from a larger menu that includes oral and anal fun, role play, and other “non-standard” activities like spanking. Women must wear blue underwear and makeup.

6 Destination: Sixes are quite devoted and need to maintain balance and harmony in a relationship. When you find that special person who indulges in carnal desires it is a joy. Music, candles, and lighting help create that air of romance. Long, very long foreplay sessions that include lots of kissing are to her liking. Sexual activities: Being kissed and licked all over the body, as well as massages and digital exploration will do you very well. Women should wear indigo, dark blue, and black.

7 Destination: Dreamy and romantic, you secretly wish for a spiritual connection with your lover. It can be a bit distant and detached and its analytical nature can produce an almost clinical approach to sex. However, you can potentially reach levels of intimacy with your lover that are beyond conscious understanding. Sexual activities: Explore things like Tantra and techniques that allow for a more meditative sexual experience. Forget that ‘clinical’ setup and use some bad language! Ladies, violets and purples will bring out your inner beast.

8 Destination: Ok, you are a freak. Icy gold. Up or down, you are almost totally active or passive. You may be too wrapped up in the politics of sexual power and you wouldn’t mind being in full control of your partner. Seduce or be seduced. This attitude can alienate others, yet when you commit, you do so completely. Sexual activities: Games that allow you to safely explore power relationships such as Bondage and Discipline or Role Playing. Learn to enjoy effusive and overly romantic displays. Ladies, the color pink will help you balance your sexual urges.

9 Destination: You can be so empathetic that you become a doormat. But you enjoy helping your lover and often put your own needs on the back burner. But when they finally pile up, watch out! Your passion may be volcanic, and your lover may unexpectedly discover that your calm nature has become quite demanding. And exciting. Sexual activities: Anything that allows mutual selfless pleasure, such as sixty-nine or mutual masturbation. Women should try brown, bronze, and chocolate in makeup and lingerie.

Copyright Jakob Steele 2007