Have you ever kissed a girl and found it completely uncomfortable? You put your lips in one place and she puts her lips in another and before you know it your teeth collide with each other, and then you try a little tongue action only to choke her to death, and suddenly you have this strong and disgusting. slimy noise that wipes out the entire mood. Well, you came to the right place!

I am going to explain several steps you must follow to “kiss a girl and drive her crazy.”

Step 1. So you’ve been on several dates with someone and now you’re ready to take the next step. To check the understanding that a kiss is about to show off between both parties, use the skillful touch and whisper technique. Playfully touch or brush his arm (not his hand) and say something funny, romantic, or poetic in his ear to break the ice. You can also find something funny about something or someone on the street and whisper in their ear “hey, look at that funny guy over there.” This will distract her from the fact that you are inches from her ear. Now once you turn your head back after laughing for a second, you can get the signal. This works as an indirect approach. This will heat up the plate and send a more definite signal that he wants to kiss you.

Step 2. IMITATION: This is the most important step of all the steps. While slowly touching your lips, gently mimic your movements “equal” to your intensity level. Pay close attention to the way you move. You don’t want to be overly aggressive, as this can cause her to lose confidence in you and turn off. I know, I know … some women like rough but trust me, the one you want, wants it nice and easy. This will make her feel very relaxed around you. Women have this preconceived notion and this fantasy of how their knight in shining armor will make them lose their minds with a kiss. Following their movement is basically following how they want it. In a way, they are unconsciously showing you how they want to be kissed. So by mimicking her technique, you’re essentially being the person she fantasizes about.

Step 3. RELAX: Don’t clench your mouth, jaws, and tongue. Keep the mouth area nice and loose.

Step 4. OPEN OR CLOSED: Pay attention to whether or not he kisses you with his eyes open or closed. If your eyes are open, then you are doing one of three things.

1.) He’s losing confidence in you

2.) She is aware of the way she is kissing and is watching your reaction or …

3.) Her breath smells like hot garbage and she feels very uncomfortable. In any case, you should step up your game plan, modify your technique or take a breath if you land on stage 3. Remember that you want to make her feel like she kisses as well as you do, whether she does or not. I find it quite creepy when you open your eyes during a kiss only to find her staring at you.

Step 5. LEADERSHIP: Lead it as if you were doing samba or salsa but very subtly and gently. Remember to keep in mind that women want a strong leader. Slowly shift to the next position. For example: Gently place both of your lips on your lower lip and slowly brush a small tongue under your lower lip. Then let him take the initiative to return the favor if he wishes.

Step 6. HOW LONG? Well, of course, there really isn’t a set time limit, but it’s always good to get away first before her. You have to do it in a way that doesn’t make her feel like she didn’t perform well.

Step 7. WHEN DO I STOP AND WHAT DO I DO NEXT? So just before your lips start to go numb, slowly clear your lips from hers, just as seductive as the way he kissed her. Your body language says it all, so be sure to smile and blush for her. Tell him how good he kisses. Then turn around and start an interesting intellectual conversation. Why would you want to do this? Women like a man who is intelligent, can carry on a conversation, and most importantly, has “willpower and self-control.” It will leave her mesmerized, hypnotized and it will make you look like an enigma. Never ask him if you kiss well. You must be confident enough to know that you are the best.

Well that’s all I have for you guys today, but remember that life is short and a kiss is just a kiss.