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Dads, give them the housework

You have a task to do at home and you
the children want to help. you know it could be nice
for help, but you feel a bit impatient.
And you know it could turn into a two hour project,
with a big mess to clean up. A disaster that could be
avoid if you did it yourself.

We’ve all been there, right?

It can be much easier to do housework and
projects without the help of your little friends.
After all, who in the world today has time to make a
project longer than necessary?

You do.

Why is it important to include your children in household chores?

Occasionally, there is some research that reveals
something so important and relevant that it cries out
parents to listen.

Researcher Marty Rossman, from the University of Minnesota,
studied a group of young adults from when they were
Small children. The initial results of the study were
that young adults who had participated in the home
housework when they were 3 and 4 years old, they were more successful as
adults than those who did not.

Specifically, these young adults were more likely to
complete their education, get a good start in a career,
develop adult relationships and avoid drug use.
Early involvement in household chores was considered
more important to your success than any other factor,
including IQ.

On the other hand, if the children did not begin to participate
in housework until adolescence,
the experience seemed to backfire and had a negative effect
about their success as young adults, using those same
measures.

What does this really mean?

When your little kids feel like their dad (or mom)
believe they are capable of handling simple tasks
around the house, it’s an incredibly powerful message
to them

Dad thinks I can do it!

If your kids think that’s how you feel about them when
walk through life, you will also be the father of a confidant,
responsible and happy children. That is what is created when
you choose to see your children as capable and show them
you believe in them.

But it’s not as easy as simply seeing them as capable. You
You also have to be patient when tackling these tasks.
Can’t take care of them when they fight, or “correct”
what did you do. Often, it’s what you don’t do that
Communicate that you believe in them.

Imagine the difference you can make with your children by
allowing their participation in family chores.
Imagine the difference in your children’s esteem when
feel like a productive participant in the family from a
early age.

You have time to include your children in the tasks and
home projects. Tell all the other fathers and mothers that
know that they also have time.

It’s too important not to.

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